Selena Gomez Responds to Claims She Would’ve Never Dated Benny in Her ‘It Girl Era’
Selena Gomez is known for her candidness, and recently, she didn't hold back when responding to a TikTok video that suggested she wouldn't have dated her current boyfriend, Benny Blanco, during her peak "It Girl" era. The video, which garnered significant attention, juxtaposed footage of Gomez at the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show in November 2015 with the claim that she "never would’ve gotten engaged to Benny" back then. The TikTok was set to the tune of "Company" by Justin Bieber, her high-profile ex-boyfriend.
Gomez, who has been open about her past struggles with mental health, took to the comments to debunk the notion that her "It Girl era" was all glamour and no substance. "Kinda makes me laugh because I was so depressed back then lol," she wrote, shedding light on the less visible aspects of her life during that time.
The singer and actress has been dating Blanco for over a year, a relationship that has been marked by her openness about her feelings for him. Despite rumors and speculation, the couple is not engaged, though sources have indicated that they are "very serious" and have discussed the possibility of marriage. Gomez has referred to Blanco as the "love of my life" on her Instagram Story, a testament to their deep connection.
This isn't the first time Gomez has defended someone close to her on social media. She has a history of standing up for her friends, including Taylor Swift, and has spoken about her approach to handling negativity online. During the TIME100 Summit in April, Gomez discussed her relationship with social media and her tendency to respond to negative comments when they involve people she cares about. "I find it frustrating and then I get a little mouthy, and I wanna defend people I love," she explained.
Gomez has also emphasized the importance of taking breaks from social media, a practice she has embraced to maintain her mental well-being. "I took four years off of Instagram, and I let my team post for me for those years," she shared. "I felt like it was the most rewarding gift I gave myself. I was more present. I was happier."
In a world where social media often paints an idealized picture of celebrity life, Selena Gomez's candid responses remind us that behind the glamour, there are real struggles and personal growth journeys. Her relationship with Benny Blanco, and her willingness to share her truth, offer a refreshing glimpse into the life of a star who values authenticity over image.